Before a work trip a few years ago, Chloe hinted to her husband she wanted to have sex with someone else. While she didn't have a particular person in mind, it had been a fantasy of hers for a while. That didn't eventuate, but the couple officially began a non-monogamous relationship earlier this year. An old friend had called Chloe to wish her happy birthday and they ended up catching up — and sleeping together. That was the first time I had sex with anyone aside from my partner in 10 years, she says. Since then, Chloe and her husband have dated and slept with other people, with some connections stronger than others. More and more people are actively looking for alternatives to monogamy, research shows.
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